Six Ideas for a More Exciting Sex Life

You and your partner have a great thing going, but sometimes, the sex can get a bit mundane. Worry not! Here are some tips to help you spice things up in the bedroom. Or, wherever the mood takes you.

Schedule It

You know how looking forward to something makes you all the more excited when the day arrives? It's the same with sex. But don't just set a date. Make specific plans - choose a place, set the mood, dress for the part and the magic unfold.

Do Something New

If there's something you and your partner have been curious about, go ahead and try it. Be it different positions or a location that's not your bedroom. Even non-sexual pursuits like taking up a new hobby together could fuel your intimacy and ignite a fire.


We don't mean cringe-worthy x-rated content. Surprise your partner with a mid-day message about a memorable time you had sex. Like on that holiday in Shimla. Or it could even be a one-liner innuendo that's personal and meaningful to the both of you.

Role Play

Phil and Claire from the show Modern Family can show you how it's done. It's a fun and flirty way to explore your fantasies - meet at a bar like strangers or stay in and dress up. Talk it out with your partner and create your own little world.

Learn How to Tease

Sometimes the way to the bedroom is through the mind. A little playful banter and witty conversation can set the stage for some sweet love-making. Playing hard to get can push your partner to the brink and leave them wanting you a whole lot more.

Leave Reminders

Is there a perfume that makes your partner swoon, spray it on your bed. Steam up your shower and leave a sexy note on the mirror. Or send flowers to the office with a suggestive note and you'll be on each other's minds all day.